What to Do When Someone Dies

A checklist for the first hours, days, and weeks

We are sorry for your loss. You do not have to do all of this today. Take one step at a time, and ask a relative or friend to take some of them.

In the first hours

  • If the person was in hospice, call the hospice. In a hospital or care facility, the staff will guide you.
  • If the death was sudden or unexpected at home, call 911.
  • When you are ready, contact a funeral home or crematory.
  • Tell close family and friends. Ask one person to pass the news along for you.
  • Make sure dependents, pets, and the home are looked after.

In the first few days

  • Plan the funeral or memorial. Funeral homes must give an itemized price list, and in most states you are not required to use one.
  • Order several certified copies of the death certificate. The funeral home can help.
  • Look for the will, trust documents, and who is named executor.
  • Confirm the funeral home will report the death to Social Security, or call 1-800-772-1213.
  • Contact the employer about final pay and benefits.

In the first few weeks

  • Find the executor or personal representative, and ask whether probate is needed.
  • List the banks, insurers, pension plans, and credit cards to notify. Ask each what it needs before closing anything.
  • Forward mail through the U.S. Postal Service and note bills and subscriptions.
  • Consider sending a death certificate copy to Equifax, Experian, and TransUnion.
  • Review digital accounts: email, cloud storage, social media, subscriptions.

Finding accounts you do not know about

  • Check mail, statements, email, old tax returns, wallet cards, and checkbook registers.
  • Ask their attorney, accountant, or financial advisor.
  • Search unclaimed property in every state they lived or worked: only-step.com/unclaimed-property
  • Be careful with paid “finders” and anyone demanding payment right away. Debts are generally paid from the estate, and family members usually are not personally responsible.

Full step-by-step guide: only-step.com/what-to-do-when-someone-dies

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General information, not legal, tax, or financial advice. Laws and procedures vary by state, and an attorney can advise on your situation. Last updated October 2026.