What to Do When Someone Dies
A checklist for the first hours, days, and weeks
We are sorry for your loss. You do not have to do all of this today. Take one step at a time, and ask a relative or friend to take some of them.
In the first hours
- If the person was in hospice, call the hospice. In a hospital or care facility, the staff will guide you.
- If the death was sudden or unexpected at home, call 911.
- When you are ready, contact a funeral home or crematory.
- Tell close family and friends. Ask one person to pass the news along for you.
- Make sure dependents, pets, and the home are looked after.
In the first few days
- Plan the funeral or memorial. Funeral homes must give an itemized price list, and in most states you are not required to use one.
- Order several certified copies of the death certificate. The funeral home can help.
- Look for the will, trust documents, and who is named executor.
- Confirm the funeral home will report the death to Social Security, or call 1-800-772-1213.
- Contact the employer about final pay and benefits.
In the first few weeks
- Find the executor or personal representative, and ask whether probate is needed.
- List the banks, insurers, pension plans, and credit cards to notify. Ask each what it needs before closing anything.
- Forward mail through the U.S. Postal Service and note bills and subscriptions.
- Consider sending a death certificate copy to Equifax, Experian, and TransUnion.
- Review digital accounts: email, cloud storage, social media, subscriptions.
Finding accounts you do not know about
- Check mail, statements, email, old tax returns, wallet cards, and checkbook registers.
- Ask their attorney, accountant, or financial advisor.
- Search unclaimed property in every state they lived or worked: only-step.com/unclaimed-property
- Be careful with paid “finders” and anyone demanding payment right away. Debts are generally paid from the estate, and family members usually are not personally responsible.
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